How to Prepare for Your DPSS Interview in Murrieta or Temecula

Written and reviewed by Mohammad Abuershaid, Esq., ALL Trial Lawyers (California State Bar No. 297270). Updated November 2026.

Before the Interview

• Ask what the allegations are. The social worker should tell you the nature of the concern, even if they will not say who reported it.
• Write a timeline. Put the key events in order with dates, so you are not reconstructing them under pressure.
• Gather documents. School records, pediatrician notes, prescriptions, photos, texts, proof of childcare arrangements and anything that answers the allegation.
• List supportive people. Relatives, teachers, coaches or doctors who can speak to your parenting, with phone numbers.
• Prepare the home if the interview will be there: basic cleanliness, food in the kitchen, safe sleeping spaces, medications and firearms secured.

During the Interview

• Be polite and calm, even if the allegation is false or offensive.
• Answer the question asked, briefly. Long explanations invite follow-up questions and misunderstandings.
• Do not guess. “I don’t remember” or “I’m not sure” is better than a wrong answer.
• Do not blame or attack the other parent, the school or whoever you think reported you.
• Do not sign anything without reading it. Ask for a copy.
• If you have a lawyer, let your lawyer step in when a question needs care.

Common Mistakes

• Minimizing a real concern (“it was nothing”) instead of acknowledging it and explaining what you have done.
• Volunteering unrelated information, such as old history or other family conflicts.
• Coaching your children about what to say.
• Missing the appointment or failing to return calls.

After the Interview

Write notes about what was discussed and send a short follow-up email confirming any agreements, such as a scheduled home visit or documents you promised to provide. Then follow through on time. Many southwest Riverside County investigations close without a court case when parents respond this way. For timing, see how long a CPS investigation takes in Murrieta, and for court, read our Southwest Justice Center dependency court guide.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I bring a lawyer to my DPSS interview?

If possible, yes. A lawyer can prepare you, attend the interview, and step in when a question needs care. Many parents find the interview goes more smoothly with counsel present.

What documents should I bring to a DPSS interview?

Bring anything that answers the allegation: school and medical records, prescriptions, photos, messages, and proof of childcare arrangements. Bring a list of supportive contacts.

Can I reschedule a DPSS interview?

Usually yes, for a good reason such as arranging for your lawyer to attend. Ask promptly and politely, and confirm the new time in writing.

What if I do not know the answer to a question?

Say so. Guessing can create inconsistencies that hurt your credibility later.

Will DPSS interview my children separately?

Often yes. Social workers usually interview children apart from parents, sometimes at school. Do not coach your children, and tell them it is okay to tell the truth.

This article provides general information about California law and is not legal advice. Reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Every case is different. Attorney advertising.